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This is a strange and unprecedented time for all of us. Join Nicoletta von Heidegger, LMFT and sexologist, for a collaborative discussion about how to create a balanced routine during all of this uncertainty. Many of our lives, businesses, self-care routines, and relationships are being put to the test and/or have been totally up-ended. Come learn some expanded self-care skills and tools to make a creative plan for your new normal. Find Nicoletta Heidegger at: Twitter: @msheidegger Instagram: @msheidegger

Listen to the full episode here: https://chtbl.com/track/GG858/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/convoswithawoundedhealer/135_135_-_Nicoletta_Heidegger_-_Sluts_and_Scholars_Healing_Sexual_Trauma.mp3 “We store so much stuff in our body. So, sometimes that's trauma, sometimes it's joy or whatever, and to be able to recognize, be aware and, like, feel what's happening and name it sounds like you're on your way to, you know, being connected to your body.” ~Nicoletta Heidegger  Healing is what happens to you while you’re busy recording a podcast. This is the second in a series of deeply personal conversations but, unlike the first, I did not expect a landslide of emotion. I did not intend to share my real-time revelations with you.  And yet, here we are. 100+ shows in and I feel as securely held by you, this amazing community, in this process as I did my guests Nicoletta Heidegger, MA, MeD, LMFT, who shepherded me through the spontaneous quake; and Rich Buino, LSW, my husband and post-show co-pilot. My hope is that all my messy vulnerability resonates with you and sheds welcome light on what can feel like a dark, lonely process.  For the sake of mutual safety, this episode is preceded by a trigger warning regarding sexual trauma and minor attracted persons, more commonly labeled as pedophiles. Please take care of yourself, even if that means skipping this conversation.  About Nicoletta. In addition to her work as a therapist and sexoligist, her PhD studies in human sexuality, and hosting duties of the much-lauded podcast Sluts and Scholars, she’s a genuine old soul. Her empathic, careful handling of sexual divergence has led to her focus on preventative practices for minor attracted persons even as she runs counter to our culture’s entrenched, shame-based attitudes toward sexuality. In the spirit of radical transparency, I knew that my on-air experience with Nicoletta required an equally revealing on-air debrief. Healing can take a long time, and each journey is wildly different. I am forever grateful to Rich for navigating these emotional switchbacks with me. There’s no shame in doing this work out loud and I hope that this episode helps you lean into that space. Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist currently pursuing her Phd in Human Sexuality. When not seeing clients, she hosts the sex positive, shame free, educational podcast sluts and scholars. For full show notes, guest information, and resources, visit: http://www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast Conversations with a Wounded Healer is a proud member of @mhnrnetwork. Let’s be friends! You can find me in the following places... www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast https://www.facebook.com/WoundedHealr/ https://www.facebook.com/HeadHeartTherapy/ @headhearttherapy @WoundedHealr @HeadHeart_Chi

This episode is full of woo-woo, magic, meant to be moments, and rejuvenation. Remy and Robyn chat with our new friends Nicoletta Heidegger + Lisa Reider and our old pal Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) about the Ranch Reboot Retreat that Nicoletta threw in LA in January that we got to attend! As a Licensed Therapist and Sexologist who utilizes Equine Therapy, Nicoletta put together a restorative and enlightening day filled with yoga, breathwork, erotic wellness, goal setting, animal assisted learning, past life regressions + soundbaths. We talk about each of the events, how they shaped us and have informed how we are going to navigate this year better and more embodied. TW: Suicidal Ideation Follow us @RemyKassimir @robynkennnedy Nicoletta - @SlutsandScholars / @therapywithnicoletta Ashley - @TheCannasexual Lisa - @lisa_reider_here Get tickets for our upc*mming show: How C*m Presents: Remy's O-nniversary in NYC 2/22/22, Caveat Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Thanks Magic Mind! Go to magicmind.co/HOWCUM and use code HOWCUM at checkout for 20% off. Thanks Dipsea. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

Nicoletta Heidegger is the host of the popular podcast, Sluts and Scholars. She is a sexologist and equine assisted psychotherapist. We take a moment to chat about sexuality, pleasure, masturbation (a word we both don't like), and how to begin your self love/pleasure journey. www.lookdownthere.com/the-show

SHA Team member, Tula Pitcher, interviews licensed marriage and family therapist and sex therapist, Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT! Catch her teaching at SHA's virtual workshop on Friday, February 26th on couples and sexuality where you can gain 8 AASECT and state CEs. Workshops are open to all professions. Register at: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/diversity-couples-feb-2021